This is a guide to the terminology of heterosexual prostitution in the UK, with emphasis on terms and abbreviations
used on the net and particularly on PunterNet. Various
other terms have been thrown in wherever I thought it appropriate. This guide does not list acronyms that are in general use on all types of newsgroups,
mailing lists and message-boards - for a comprehensive list of these acronyms take a look at the Internet Acronyms Dictionary. There is very little coverage of BDSM terms here - see The
Deviant's Dictionary for explanations of these.
All the terms in this glossary are tagged, so it's possible to link directly to the definition of any term from elsewhere on the web.
The selection of terms defined here will no doubt seem quirky and erratic to some people. But that's OK, because it is quirky and erratic.
Description of any act here does not signify the author's approval of it, particularly if it is illegal - see Redefining Prostitution as Sex Work for an overview of the laws (in England and Wales) pertaining to sex work.
69 Simultaneous
fellatio and cunnilingus.
A Anal sex.
AC/DC Bisexual.
A-levels Anal sex.
alt.sex.prostitution The newsgroup alt.sex.prostitution provides a world-wide forum for discussion of prostitution. However, UK discussion now generally takes place on the PunterNet message board and on Street Girls UK, while alt.sex.prostitution is mostly full of US stuff and spam.
anilingus
Licking someone's anus. Many prostitutes will allow you to do this to them, but
far fewer will do it to you.
asp An
abbreviation for alt.sex.prostitution.
AWO Anal without [a condom]. Same
as Death Wish and
BBBF.
bareback
Without a condom.
BBBF Bareback butt fuck.
Same as Death Wish
and AWO.
BBBJ Bareback blow job.
Same as FWO or OWO.
BBF Bareback fuck. Same as
SWO.
BBW Big
beautiful woman.
BDSM Bondage
and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. For
explanations of numerous BDSM terms see The Deviant's Dictionary (https://www.queernet.org/deviant/).
BJ Blow job. A
strange term for fellatio.
brown
shower Another name for hardsports.
Brut
service Yabadabadoo's term for a facial ("splash it all
over").
Captain
69 The webmaster of a site dedicated to reviews of
escorts in the UK (particularly London) and, to a lesser extent, elsewhere in
Europe. This site was created somewhen around September/October 1998 and appears
to be the oldest significant website providing reviews of UK prostitutes. But at
the beginning of February 2000 it turned into a paysite.
CIM Come in
mouth.
completion Orgasm. For example, OWO to completion means
until you cum.
covered
With a condom.
cowgirl A
position for sexual intercourse - the man on his back, the woman sitting atop.
CP Corporal
punishment. You used to be able to get this in return for stealing things, but
it doesn't work that way any more.
creampie
Ejaculation in the vagina (or anus) without a condom.
cum
facial Same as facial.
cunnilingus Pussy-licking. A good
article on this can be found at https://whiteshadow.pornopartners.com/guides/cunnilingus.html.
CWM
CyberWhoreMonger. A punter who uses the
Internet in connection with his paid-sex activities. This is mainly an American
term, and contrasts with CyberCourtesan.
Death
Wish Anal sex without a condom. Same as BBBF and AWO.
doggie
style A position for sexual intercourse - the woman
on her knees, the man entering from behind.
DP Double
penetration - one penis in the vagina, another in the anus.
EMB
The Escorts Message Board. One of many message boards that
is primarily intended for ads by UK escorts. facial This
is where you spunk over her face.
fanny Same as
pussy, cunny, quim, etc. (This definition is provided for the benefit of
Americans, who generally have a very strange idea of what a fanny is.)
fellatio
Cock-sucking. A good article on this can be found at https://whiteshadow.pornopartners.com/guides/howtosuckcock.html.
fisting
Hand in vagina.
FOC Free of
charge.
FR Field report
(on PunterNet).
French
French sex. Another strange term for fellatio.
French
kissing Deep kissing, tongue kissing.
FS Sometimes
means full sex, but
sometimes means full
service.
full
service Bit vague, but generally means full sex and fellatio.
full sex
Vaginal intercourse.
full
strip Should mean that she takes all her clothes off
- but beware that she may have a different idea of the meaning.
FWO French without [a
condom]. Same as OWO or
BBBJ.
Galahad The
creator and host of PunterNet and Global
PunterNet.
gang-bang An
occasion on which several men successively have sexual intercourse with one
woman.
Global
PunterNet A website (https://www.wenching.com/)
created by Galahad
on 07 June 2023 for the exchange of information on prostitution across the globe
except the UK which is covered by PunterNet. Like
PunterNet it
consists of two main parts: a message board and a collection of field reports.
golden
shower Another name for watersports.
Greek Anal
sex.
half &
half An American term for French and sex. Not to be used in the
UK, because most girls here haven't got a clue what it means.
hardsports Defaecation in a sexual
context. Usually means that the prostitute shits over the client, or at least
for the client to watch.
HJ Hand-job.
Same as HR.
hobby The
"hobby" is whoring.
hobbyist
Euphemism for a man who frequents prostitutes. A (habitual) punter.
HR Hand relief.
Same as HJ.
H/S Hardsports.
incall Where
the client visits the prostitute. Opposite of outcall. (But beware
that the term "incall" is frequently misused to mean an outcall to the client's
home.)
john Another
term (esp. in North America) for a punter.
massage
parlour Usually a brothel. This is illegal in the UK
but is tolerated in many areas - although official toleration, as in Edinburgh,
is rare.
MFS Massage and
full sex.
mish
Missionary position (woman on her back, man on top facing her).
MMF A
male-male-female threesome.
NCF No content
follows. Used at the end of a message that is entirely contained in the subject
line. Very common on the PunterNet message
board.
O Oral sex.
O-levels Oral sex.
oral Oral sex.
Either fellatio or
cunnilingus -
usually the former in the context of punter talk.
OTK Over the
knee (spanking).
outcall
Where the prostitute visits the client's home or hotel. Opposite of incall.
OWO Oral without [a condom].
Same as FWO or BBBJ.
pearl
necklace This is where you spunk over her
breasts/shoulders/neck.
provider
Euphemism for a prostitute.
punter
Dysphemism for a prostitute's client.
PunterNet
A website (https://www.punternet.com/) created by Galahad on 26 January
1999 for the exchange of information on prostitution in the UK, with emphasis on
Greater London. Consists of two main parts: a message board and a collection of
field reports.
reverse
Means the opposite way round to that which is most common between a prostitute
and her client. For example, "reverse oral" means cunnilingus and
"reverse massage" means the client massaging the prostitute.
rimming Anilingus.
RLD Red-light
district.
Russian A
tit-fuck.
sandwich
Another term for DP.
scat Another
term for hardsports.
service
provider Just a longer form of the term "provider".
sex On its own
often means vaginal intercourse.
sixty-nine See 69.
SM
Sado-masochism. See also BDSM
solid
sports Another term for hardsports.
snowballing The action of kissing to
exchange cum immediately after CIM.
SP Service
provider. (Note that lowercase "sp" is often used in parenthesis to indicate
uncertainty about spelling.)
spam This is
nothing to do with sex (although with some people's sexual preferences it's
difficult to be sure), but the question has come up on PunterNet. The term
"spam" nowadays refers mainly to commercial junk e-mail/postings, especially
when sent out in bulk. For more information on the meaning of "spam" read the
spam entry in the Jargon File (https://www.tuxedo.org/~esr/jargon/html/entry/spam.html).
spoons A
position for sexual intercouse - both partners lying on their side, with the man
behind the woman.
straight
sex Vaginal intercourse.
SW Sex worker.
(Or software, of course. Best not to confuse the two.)
swallows
Means that she swallows your cum. SWO Sex without [a condom].
Same as BBF.
TLC Tender
loving care.
uncovered
Without a condom.
VFM Value for
money.
walk-up This
is a type of establishment that is common in Soho (including Chinatown), and to
a lesser extent in Shepherd Market (and the neighbouring Shepherd Street and
Market Mews). A walk-up has an open door leading into a flat (or two or three)
in each of which a prostitute works. They advertise mainly by means of a note by
the entrance saying "model" and usually giving some details.
watersports Urination in a sexual
context. Usually means that the prostitute pisses over the client, or at least
for the client to watch, but sometimes also the other way around (2-way
watersports). For further info see the Watersports Training Manual (https://www.patches.org/wsmanual.shtml).
WG Working Girl
with Often
means "with a condom".
without
Often means "without a condom".
working girl
Euphemism for a prostitute.
W/S Watersports.
WSG The World Sex Guide.
World Sex
Guide A site providing information (much of it from
alt.sex.prostitution)
about prostitution throughout the world. Hasn't been updated since June 1998,
but still contains useful information. Note that this is the non-commercial
World Sex Guide (Atta's World Sex Guide - https://www.worldsexguide.org/) - there is also a commercial one
(the Banker's World Sex Guide - https://www.worldsexguide.com/worldsex.htm).
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